If that man wanted to be in a relationship with you then he would make it happen. He likes the security of having you around and he will always have a fall back as long as he keeps you close. He still wants the sex, companionship, and all the other things that a girlfriend provides which makes him feel good when he needs it. What his actions are showing you is that he still wants the benefits and comfort of a relationship.
#I'M NOT THE GUY YOU'RE TAKING HOME FREE#
If other women come along that he wants to engage with well he wants to be free to do as he pleases without any valid issue being raised on your part. He wants to be able to deflect your questioning of his actions and his whereabouts. He is not prepared to be obligated to you or to commit to you. This man is telling you the truth when he says he does not want a girlfriend and a relationship. Here is the reality for most of you that are in or have been in this situation. So again what the hell is his problem? Why does he say one thing but he is showing you something else? Why won’t he just officially make you his girlfriend and stop sending you mixed signals? This man even gets bothered and shows some jealousy when you talk to other guys. You hang out, talk, and do things that a girlfriend does which leaves you wondering where his head is really at.
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Regardless you continue to deal with him and it’s like you two are basically in a relationship. For some of you it’s cool but for many of you a relationship is what you truly desire.
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too busy, emotionally unavailable, past hurt, etc) he doesn’t budge from his position of not wanting a girlfriend right now. For whatever reason he decides to give you (i.e. Sounds confusing right? Like what the hell is wrong with this guy? Whenever you want to discuss becoming his girlfriend and taking things to the next level, this man insists he is not looking for a relationship.